I’m Worried the Other Parent
Will Take My Child Overseas

If you fear your child is at risk of being removed from Australia without your consent, you must act quickly. This guide outlines immediate steps for prevention and legal intervention.

On this page you will find an overview of the information in our ‘I’m Worried the Other Parent Will Take My Child Overseas’ resource. To read the full resource, click on the ‘Download Full Resource’ button below.

This resource is available in 10 languages, including Arabic, Chinese, Dari, Hindi, Persian, Punjabi, Sinhalese, Thai and Vietnamese.

Immediate Danger?

If you believe that there is immediate risk of the other parent removing your child from Australia:

📞 Call the Police: 000

Act Quickly – Safety Checklist

Time is critical. Use this checklist to assess your situation and take preventative measures immediately.

Secure Passports

  • If you have your child’s passport, keep it in a safe, secure place that the other parent cannot access. If the child has dual citizenship, try to secure both passports.

Collect evidence

  • Collect evidence that suggests that there is an imminent threat, such as requests for the passport, messages or threats to travel.

Seek Legal Advice

  • Contact International Social Service Australia, or speak to a family lawyer about your options.

Contact the Police

  • If the threat is immediate, contact the Police. Consider putting the child on the Airport Watchlist immediately.

Overseas Travel & Family Law

In Australia, it is a serious criminal offence to take a child overseas without the consent of the other parent or a court order if there are parenting orders in place or pending. Even without orders, taking a child can have severe legal consequences.

If the other parent wants to travel with your child, they are required to negotiate with you, consider your views and obtain consent.

If you are not able to agree with the other parent, we recommend that you consider trying to resolve the issue through Family Dispute Resolution.

  • The best interests of the child and reasons for travelling.
  • How long they plan to travel for.
  • How you can have contact while they are travelling
  • Which country they are travelling to.

How can you get your child back from the other parent if they are overseas?

Miscommunication between parents is often the reason children are not returned on time after travelling overseas. If you cannot contact the other parent, or they refuse to return the child, you can take steps to find your child and get them back.

Contact Local Police

If you think your child is in immediate danger call 000. If you think that your child may still be in Australia, contact Victoria Police to request a welfare check to ensure the child is safe.

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International Social Service (ISS)

If you think that your child is overseas, seek advice immediately from International Social Service Australia (ISS). ISS provides legal assistance for families separated by borders.

iss.org.au

Family Law Watchlist

The Family Law Watchlist is a system designed to alert police if a child is attempting to leave Australia. For more information about applying for the Airport Watchlist, download the Airport Watchlist Order Kit from Victoria Legal Aid.
1

Apply to Court

You must file an application with the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia requesting an order to place the child on the watchlist.

2

Evidence

Collect and provide as much supporting evidence as possible, such as intervention orders, requests for the child’s passport or threats to take the child.

3

Be Aware

If your child is on the Airport Watchlist, then you will not be prevented from leaving Australia as well.

Do you need an urgent after-hours application?

Be aware, a child alert does not prevent your child obtaining a passport from another country if they are eligible.

Child Alerts and Passports

Australian Passports

You will not be allowed to put your child on the Airport Watchlist if your child does not have a valid passport. If you are worried that your child could be issued a passport without your consent, you can apply for a Child Alert.

Foreign Passports

A Child Alert does not prevent your child obtaining a passport from another country if they are eligible. If your child is eligible for a foreign passport, contact the relevant embassy or consulate in Australia immediately.

Key Contacts

Australian Passport Office

passports.gov.au

Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (FCFCOA)

fcfcoa.gov.au

The Hague Convention

The Hague Convention is an agreement that provides for international cooperation in circumstances of child abduction. Not all countries are signatories to this agreement. If the other parent has ties to a Non-Hague country and there is a risk that the child will be taken overseas, we recommend you apply for the Airport Watchlist.

Is the other country a member?

  • Not all countries are signatory. If your child is taken to a non-Hague Convention country, recovering them can be much more difficult and costly.
  • Countries that have signed the Hague Convention have agreed to help return children who have been unlawfully removed from their home country.
  • Countries that have not signed the Hague Convention have no international obligation to help return unlawfully removed children.
View list of Hague Convention Countries on AG.gov.au

Case Study: Mei’s Story

The Situation

Mei had concerns that her ex-partner, Tim, might try to take their daughter overseas without her consent as Tim had family in China and had asked for her daughter’s passport.

Action Taken

Mei feared that her daughter would be taken to China, a non-Hague country without her consent, so she contacted Legal Help and spoke with a family lawyer. She decided to apply for the Airport Watchlist, so her daughter could not be removed from Australia.

The Outcome

Even though Mei was unable to travel overseas with her daughter either, Mei had peace of mind that her daughter was safe and could not be taken to China without her knowledge.

Looking for more information on travelling with children after separation?

We have created a series of four resources focused on travel with children after separation where there is family violence.
To read the complete travel resources booklet click the ‘Download Complete Travel Resources Booklet’ button below.
This booklet contains all four travel resources:

  • Travelling Overseas With Your Child
  • Applying for Your Child’s Australian Passport
  • I’m Worried the Other Parent Will Take My Child Overseas
  • Travelling or Relocating Within Australia

This resource is available in 10 languages, including Arabic, Chinese, Dari, Hindi, Persian, Punjabi, Sinhalese, Thai and Vietnamese.

You are not alone. Please contact the below services for additional support.

Victoria Legal Aid

Free legal information and advice to Victorians.

Get Support

Safe Steps

Victoria’s 24/7 family violence response centre for crisis support.

Get Support

1800RESPECT

National sexual assault, domestic family violence counselling service.

Get Support

TIS National

Need an interpreter? Call TIS and ask to be connected to any of these services.

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